Family & Friends

I was just thinking about how families & friendships are broken up into groups. You have who lives in your household that's whom you have the closest bonds with, you have the people who visit on a more frequent basis your bond with them is similar but not as close, then you have the distant friends and family members who come around on special occasions: holidays, birthday parties, weddings, and funerals. When you get around those folks you try to figure out why yall don't talk more, visit more, keep in touch more? You had such a good time and can't quite figure out why these are the only occasions we see each other..... I think it's meant to be this way, everyone has their place/roles in the family/friendship that they are ok with, it works for them, if it was more it might not work as well. We all have those friends/family members that promise they are going to come are around more, keep in touch more, promise they are gonna be at the very next function you throw but that time never comes. Don't feel bad just understand people surround themselves with the people they can relate to, sometimes you don't fit into their perception of who they think you should be!